There’s no manual on how to become a better kisser, and yet it’s so important because of how much this skill can affect your love life. Once you press your lips against another person’s lips, chemistry takes over. Sparks will either fly or they won’t. Ideally, you want the recipient longing to feel your lips again and again.
Here’s a quick list of things you can do in order to be a better smoocher…
#1 Keep Excellent Mouth Hygiene
Be mindful of how fresh your breath is. Did you eat something earlier that is still lingering? Do you have a sinus infection? Do you have lip gloss on your lips? All of these things can have an effect on how your mouth tastes. Before that special moment happens, take a short “bathroom” break to freshen up. If your breath is kickin’, you might as well kiss that next date goodbye.
Note: Being a better kisser is not just about kissing techniques. Nothing will kill expectations faster than dry and cracked lips. Make sure your lips are soft and moisturized.
#2 Use Tongue Sparingly
This is the first rule of kissing… Don’t go all “slobber dog” on them! If you’re too forceful, drool happens. If you’re not sure when to introduce the tongue, “feel” the terrain out. Start off by finding their tongue with the tip of yours and then pull back.
Pay attention and see where it takes you to next. Are they playfully biting your lip? When someone is really enjoying something, they’ll let you know with signs.
#3 Move Your Body Too
Don’t just focus on the kiss itself. To become a better kisser, get your entire body involved. This will leave a lasting impression on you and your kissing skills. Move your body around so that it mirrors their movements. If they move their hips, move yours. If they place their hands on your neck, do something similar.
Think of it as creating your own kissing dance. Just follow their lead and if they want you to take the lead, take it.
#4 Travel To Other Areas
If you’re ready to take things to the next level, gradually move away from modest kisses to more seductive kisses. You can do this by traveling to other areas of the body.
Aim to kiss in sensual areas of the body such as the earlobe or collarbone. This is the area where pheromones are released. As you playfully kiss the earlobes and collarbone, the hairs on the nape of their neck will stand up. This invites them in and lets them know that you’re ready for the next step. Take your time.
#5 INITIATE IT
When the feeling of passion comes over you, don’t be afraid to initiate the kiss. Sometimes women feel shy and don’t want to come across as forceful. You’ll be surprised at how exhilarating it feels to initiate a kiss. Just lean in and do it.
Ready to blow their mind with your kisses? When it comes to being a better kisser, practice makes perfect, so get started using these techniques now. Share with me below, what is your favorite kissing technique?