The days of waiting around for Mr. or Mrs. Right are over. A combination of loneliness and bad relationships have pushed more and more singles to stop leaving their love life to chance. Instead, they are turning to a matchmaker with the expertise to pair them with someone who’s a perfect fit for them so they can enjoy long-lasting happiness.
Take this couple I matched, for example…
Lisa is the CEO of a marketing agency and Keith is a career US marine. The two are happier now than they’ve ever been in their lives, but they never would have found each other had they not stepped out on a limb and used a matchmaker.
When Lisa came to me, she was frustrated with relationships. She had been involved with someone on and off again for 8 years and thought she’d never find the right person. Keith had gone through a divorce, but he still believed in love and hoped that he’d one day find a great person.
While having dinner with Lisa, she shared a few great things about herself, and I immediately knew I had a great match for her. At first she was skeptical, but she trusted the process and trusted that her matchmaker had someone who was right for her.
Because Keith was just stepping back into the dating scene and Lisa was just coming out of a breakup, I knew that their introduction needed to be informal. That’s why I introduced the two of them through Facebook, a social networking tool.
Fast forward three months after their introduction, the two made plans to meet each other.
Six months later, they got engaged.
A year later, they got married and are now living their happily ever after in Germany.
Stories like these happen every day for people who turn to matchmakers.
3 Things To Keep In Mind When Hiring A Matchmaker
When hiring your own matchmaker there are 3 important things to keep in mind:
#1: A Proven Process
Look for someone who has a proven process or approach to helping their clients find love. This should be a process that walks you from where you are now (single) to where you want to be (in a healthy relationship).
#2: walks their talk
You want a matchmaker someone who understands what it means to invest in a long-term relationship and how to make it work. Ideally, they are in a successful relationship of their own.
#3: track record of results
A proven track record shows that they are invested in their clients’ love life and don’t have an attitude of, “I think it’s going to work out”.
Keep these three things in mind when looking for a professional matchmaker and you’ll be able to trust the person you find.
Remember, matchmaking is not just about introductions and it’s not just a job. It’s a passion, mission and a gift to be a matchmaker. Be sure you hire someone you can trust.